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How do I teach my child the Islamic manners of eating?

Bloomtivo answers

Teach six Sunnahs, one a week: say Bismillah, eat with the right hand, eat from what is in front of you (Sahih al-Bukhari 5376), sit down to eat, don’t criticise food (Sahih al-Bukhari 3563), and say Alhamdulillah after. If they forget Bismillah, they say “Bismillahi awwalahu wa akhirahu” when they remember (Sunan Abi Dawud 3767).

Reviewed by Mohamed Eid, Bloomtivo teacher · Updated

The full answer

Meals happen several times a day, so they’re perfect for building Sunnah habits.

Six Sunnahs of eating

SunnahSource
Say Bismillah before eatingThe Prophet ﷺ to a boy: “Say Bismillah, eat with your right hand, and eat from what is in front of you” (Bukhari 5376)
Eat with the right handSame hadith; see why the right hand
Eat from in front of youSame hadith
Don’t criticise foodHe never criticised food; if he liked it he ate, if not he left it (Bukhari 3563)
Sit down to eat and drinkGood manners
Alhamdulillah afterPraise Allah when finished

If they forget Bismillah

Say: بِسْمِ اللّٰهِ أَوَّلَهُ وَآخِرَهُ, “In the name of Allah, at its beginning and its end” (Sunan Abi Dawud 3767).

Six weeks, six habits

  1. Bismillah.
  2. Right hand.
  3. Eating from in front of you.
  4. No complaining about food (“No thank you” is fine).
  5. Sitting down.
  6. Alhamdulillah after.

At school

Remind children to say Bismillah quietly in the school canteen too. See halal at school.

Teacher’s tip: let your child be the “Bismillah reminder” at family meals. Children love catching adults who forget.

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