Children today see images of war and suffering online and in conversations at school. Many Muslim children feel scared, sad or angry, especially when the victims look like their own family.
Step 1: control what they see
- No graphic videos or images for children under 12.
- Turn off news in the background when young children are around.
- Check what older children see on TikTok, Instagram or YouTube.
Step 2: ask, then answer
“What have you heard? How does it make you feel?” Listen first. Children often have frightening misunderstandings, such as believing it could happen in their street tonight.
Step 3: reassure
- “You are safe here. Mum and Dad are looking after you.”
- “Many people around the world are working to help.”
Step 4: give them something to do
| Age | Action |
|---|---|
| 4–7 | A short dua at bedtime for children who are hurt |
| 8–11 | Collect coins for a trusted charity; make a poster for a fundraiser |
| 12+ | Volunteering, fundraising, learning the history, writing to their MP |
Faith perspective
Allah tells us that people will be tested with fear and loss, and gives good news to the patient (Quran 2:155–157). The Prophet ﷺ described believers as one body: when one part hurts, the whole body feels it (Sahih Muslim 2586). Caring is part of faith.
For teenagers
Talk honestly and help them express anger in positive, lawful ways. Watch for signs of distress or of being drawn to extreme online content, and speak to the school if you are worried.
Teacher’s tip: keep normal routines going. Regular meals, school and play tell children that their world is still stable.
