Many parents want their children to pray but struggle themselves. When your child notices, it can feel embarrassing, but it is also a real opportunity.
What to say
“That’s a really good question. Prayer is one of the most important things for a Muslim, and I haven’t been doing it as I should. I want to change that. Will you help me, and I’ll help you?”
What not to say
| Avoid | Why |
|---|---|
| “I pray when you’re not looking” | If it isn’t true, your child will learn lying |
| “Mind your own business” | Teaches that faith questions are unwelcome |
| “Adults don’t have to” | Not true, and confuses the child |
Start small, together
- Week 1: pray one prayer together every day, for example Maghrib.
- Week 2: add another, such as Isha.
- Week 3: add Dhuhr or Asr on weekends.
- Keep a chart for both of you on the fridge.
Why it matters
Allah asks believers why they say what they do not do (Quran 61:2–3). Children copy what we do far more than what we say. A parent who returns to prayer shows that it is never too late, and Allah loves those who turn back to Him.
If you need help yourself
Many adults learn or relearn prayer as adults. We teach adults too; a few lessons on salah and the surahs can rebuild your confidence.
Teacher’s tip: let your child “lead” the habit by reminding you when it is prayer time. Children take that role very seriously, and it helps both of you.
Related: Learning alongside your child.
