Eid al-Adha is the “Festival of Sacrifice”, at the time of Hajj. Children understand it best through the story behind it.
The story, in simple words
Prophet Ibrahim saw in a dream that Allah wanted him to sacrifice his son Ismail. Ismail said: “Father, do what you are commanded. You will find me, if Allah wills, one of the patient.” When they were both ready to obey, Allah called out and replaced Ismail with a ram (Quran 37:102–107).
“Allah didn’t want Ismail to be hurt. He wanted to see that they loved Him most of all.”
What happens
| Day | What |
|---|---|
| 9 Dhul Hijjah | Day of Arafah: fasting is recommended for those not on Hajj (Sahih Muslim 1162) |
| 10 Dhul Hijjah | Eid prayer, then qurbani |
| 10–13 Dhul Hijjah | Days of Eid; takbir after prayers |
Qurbani for children
- An animal (sheep, goat, or a share of a cow or camel) is sacrificed for Allah.
- The meat is shared: with family, friends, and people in need.
- Many UK families pay for their qurbani to be done abroad, so the meat reaches families who rarely eat meat.
Involve your child
- Look at a map together and choose a country for your qurbani.
- Let them help pack meat parcels for neighbours, if you do it locally.
- Learn the Eid takbir together.
Teacher’s tip: ask your child, “What is something you love that you could give up for Allah?” It turns a big story into a personal lesson.
Related: Eid prayer and Sunnahs and Prophet Ibrahim.
