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A parent asks

How do I teach my child to make dua in their own words?

Bloomtivo answers

Teach a simple four-step shape: praise Allah (“Ya Allah, You are so kind”), send salawat on the Prophet ﷺ, ask for what they need (for themselves and others), and finish with “Amin”. Model it out loud daily, give prompts (“What do you want to ask Allah for today?”), and teach special times: in sujud, between the adhan and iqamah, and on Fridays.

Reviewed by Islam Ragab, Bloomtivo teacher · Updated

The full answer

Memorised duas are precious, but children also need to talk to Allah in their own words.

The four-step shape

StepExample
1. Praise Allah“Ya Allah, You made everything and You’re so kind.”
2. Salawat“Allahumma salli ‘ala Muhammad.”
3. Ask“Please help me in my test. Please make Nana better.”
4. Finish“Amin.”

Prompts for children

  • “What are you thankful for today?”
  • “Who do you want to make dua for?”
  • “What’s worrying you?”

Special times for dua

TimeSource
In sujudThe servant is closest to his Lord in prostration (Sahih Muslim 482)
Between the adhan and iqamahDua is not rejected then (Sunan Abi Dawud 521)
FridayAn hour when dua is answered (Bukhari 935)
When it rainsSee dua when it rains

Model it

Make dua out loud in front of your children, in your own words: for them, for family, for people suffering. They learn by hearing.

A dua jar

Children write or draw what they want to ask for and put it in a jar. Once a week, read them and make dua together.

Teacher’s tip: when a dua is answered, point it out: “Remember you asked Allah for that?” Children’s trust in dua grows from these moments.

Related: Bedtime duas.

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