This is a personal family decision. Here are the main considerations.
The Islamic view, simply
- Teaching and learning the Quran across genders is permitted by many scholars with conditions: modesty, respectful conduct, and no seclusion (khalwah).
- Online lessons with a parent nearby avoid seclusion.
- Many families and scholars prefer same-gender teaching for girls approaching or after puberty.
Ask a trusted local scholar if you want a ruling for your situation.
By age (common family choices)
| Age | Common choice |
|---|---|
| 4–8 | Either; many families are comfortable with a male teacher |
| 9–12 | Families often move to a female teacher |
| Puberty and above | Most families prefer a female teacher |
Practical points
- Parent nearby during lessons. See sitting in.
- Modest dress and professional conduct.
- Clear safeguarding. See our Safeguarding Policy.
Our teachers
Bloomtivo has male and female teachers, all with ijazahs. You can choose, and change teacher free of charge during the trial. See female Quran teachers.
Teacher’s tip: ask your daughter how she feels. A child who is comfortable with her teacher learns faster, whatever the choice.
Related: Lessons during periods.
