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A parent asks

We’re taking our child on Umrah. How do we prepare them?

Bloomtivo answers

Start 4 to 6 weeks before. Teach the talbiyah, the story of the Ka’bah (Ibrahim and Ismail) and of Hajar running between Safa and Marwah, and walk through the steps: ihram, tawaf (7 rounds), sa’i (7 trips), and shortening hair. For safety, give younger children an ID bracelet with your phone number, matching clothing, and an agreed meeting point.

Reviewed by Shaimaa Wagdy, Bloomtivo teacher · Updated

The full answer

A child’s Umrah is valid, and parents are rewarded for taking them. A woman once lifted up a child and asked the Prophet ﷺ, “Does this one have Hajj?” He said: “Yes, and you will have a reward” (Sahih Muslim 1336).

A 6-week preparation plan

WeekLearn
1The story of Ibrahim and Ismail building the Ka’bah
2The story of Hajar and the water of Zamzam
3The talbiyah, by heart
4The steps of Umrah, acted out at home
5Duas they want to make; a personal dua list
6Safety rules and practical packing

The talbiyah

لَبَّيْكَ اللّٰهُمَّ لَبَّيْكَ، لَبَّيْكَ لَا شَرِيكَ لَكَ لَبَّيْكَ، إِنَّ الْحَمْدَ وَالنِّعْمَةَ لَكَ وَالْمُلْكَ، لَا شَرِيكَ لَكَ

The steps, simply

  1. Ihram: special clothes for men and boys, intention, talbiyah.
  2. Tawaf: walk around the Ka’bah 7 times.
  3. Sa’i: walk between Safa and Marwah 7 times, remembering Hajar.
  4. Hair: shave or shorten (men), shorten a little (women).

Act out tawaf around a table at home, counting rounds.

Safety in crowds

  • A wristband with your name and phone number (with international code).
  • Bright, matching family colours.
  • A fixed meeting point if separated; teach them to go to a security guard.
  • Avoid peak crowd times with young children.

Teacher’s tip: help your child write five personal duas on a card to make when they first see the Ka’bah. Children remember that moment for life.

Related: Making dua in their own words.

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