Cleanliness after the toilet (istinja) is needed for valid prayer. Children need clear, practical steps, especially in UK toilets without a bidet.
The routine
- Enter with the left foot and say the dua. See toilet duas.
- Sit down, including boys when urinating, to avoid splashes.
- Wash the private parts with water, using the left hand.
- Dry with tissue.
- Leave with the right foot and the dua.
- Wash hands with soap.
UK set-up
| Place | Tool |
|---|---|
| Home | A jug or watering can (lota), or a bidet spray fitted to the toilet |
| School | A small water bottle in the bag |
| Out and about | Wet wipes or tissue if no water |
When there’s no water
Using tissue or toilet paper to clean thoroughly (istijmar) is acceptable when water isn’t available; using water is better when possible.
Why it matters
The Prophet ﷺ warned about not being careful with urine (Sahih al-Bukhari 216). Splashes on clothes can affect prayer. Teach it as part of being clean for Allah.
By age
- 3–5: help with each step; praise independence.
- 6+: mostly independent; check occasionally.
- Before puberty: explain ghusl and what changes later.
Teacher’s tip: a small picture chart on the bathroom wall (feet, water, tissue, soap) helps young children remember the order without reminders.
Related: Teaching wudu.
