Allah preserved a wise father’s advice to his son in the Quran. Children love that it’s written like a parent speaking to them.
The advice
| Verse | Advice | For children |
|---|---|---|
| 13 | Don’t associate anything with Allah | Allah is One |
| 14–15 | Be grateful to Allah and to your parents | Thank Mum and Dad |
| 16 | Even a mustard seed hidden in a rock, Allah will bring it out | Allah sees everything |
| 17 | Pray, enjoin good, forbid wrong, be patient | Pray and be patient |
| 18 | Don’t turn your face away in pride or walk arrogantly | Don’t show off |
| 19 | Walk moderately and lower your voice | Speak gently |
Each piece begins with يَا بُنَيَّ, “O my dear son” (Quran 31:13).
A 3-week plan
- Week 1: verses 12–14
- Week 2: 15–17
- Week 3: 18–19, then all together
Live one piece a week
“This week is the ‘lower your voice’ week.” Children enjoy reminding the whole family, parents included.
For parents
Luqman’s method is a model: tender words (يَا بُنَيَّ), clear reasons, and advice that covers faith, family and character. See words of affection.
Teacher’s tip: verse 16 about the mustard seed is wonderful for honesty: “Even if no one sees, Allah does.” Bring a real mustard seed to show how tiny it is.
Related: Respect for parents.
