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A parent asks

What does “Astaghfirullah” mean, and how do I teach it without making my child feel guilty?

Bloomtivo answers

“Astaghfirullah” means “I ask Allah for forgiveness.” Muslims say it after a mistake, after prayer (three times) and as daily dhikr. The Prophet ﷺ said it more than 70 times a day, so it is not only for big sins. Teach it as a fresh start, not a punishment.

Reviewed by Shaimaa Wagdy, Bloomtivo teacher · Updated

The full answer

أَسْتَغْفِرُ ٱللَّهَ

What it means

It asks Allah to forgive and cover our mistakes. The Prophet ﷺ said he sought Allah’s forgiveness more than seventy times a day (Sahih al-Bukhari 6307). If the best of people said it so often, it is clearly a normal, positive habit.

When to say it

  • After a mistake: being rude, telling a lie, hurting someone.
  • Three times straight after every prayer.
  • Any time, as easy dhikr.

Keep it gentle

AvoidTry instead
“Say Astaghfirullah, you’re so bad!”“Let’s say Astaghfirullah and start again.”
Using it as a punishmentSaying it together, calmly
Only after big mistakesAlso as daily dhikr, like the Prophet ﷺ

After saying it, help your child fix the mistake too: apologise, return the toy, tell the truth.

Teacher’s tip: Say “Astaghfirullah” yourself when you make a small mistake in front of your child. It shows everyone needs it.

Our Duas & Adhkar programme teaches the after-prayer adhkar.

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