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A parent asks

How do I explain Laylat al-Qadr to my 7-year-old?

Bloomtivo answers

Say: “It’s the most special night of the year. It’s in the last ten nights of Ramadan. Good deeds on that night are better than a thousand months, which is more than 83 years!” Let your child join in with a short prayer, a dua and charity, and teach the dua: “Allahumma innaka ‘afuwwun tuhibbul-‘afwa fa‘fu ‘anni.”

Reviewed by Mahmoud Tantawy, Bloomtivo teacher · Updated

The full answer

Laylat al-Qadr is easy to make exciting for children: it is a “secret” night with a huge reward.

The simple explanation

  • It is the night the Quran was first sent down.
  • It is “better than a thousand months” (Quran 97:3). A thousand months is more than 83 years: longer than most people’s whole lives.
  • Nobody knows exactly which night it is, but it is in the last ten nights of Ramadan, especially the odd nights (Sahih al-Bukhari 2017).

The dua to teach

اللّٰهُمَّ إِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّي

Allahumma innaka ‘afuwwun tuhibbul-‘afwa fa‘fu ‘anni: “O Allah, You are forgiving and love to forgive, so forgive me.” The Prophet ﷺ taught this dua for Laylat al-Qadr (Jami’ at-Tirmidhi 3513).

A child-sized plan for each odd night

ActivityTime
Pray 2 rak’ahs with a parent5 minutes
Say the Laylat al-Qadr dua 10 times2 minutes
Recite a surah they know2 minutes
Put a coin in the charity jar1 minute
Make a personal dua list5 minutes

On school nights in the UK, the last ten nights can be late. Do the plan before bedtime; it still counts as part of the night.

Make it memorable

  • A special “odd nights” calendar: 21, 23, 25, 27, 29.
  • Fairy lights or a lantern on those nights.
  • A special snack after the activities.

Teacher’s tip: let your child write their dua list in their own words. Children treasure finding it the following Ramadan.

Related: Explaining Ramadan to a young child.

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